Not Yet Married by Marshall Segal
If you follow Jesus, the search for a spouse is no longer a pursuit of the perfect person, but a pursuit of more of God. He will likely write a love story for you different than the one you would write for yourself, but that’s because he loves you and knows how to write a better story. This book was written to help you find real hope, happiness, and purpose in your not-yet-married life.
While I don’t recommend everything from Andy Stanley, his sermons on love, sex, and dating are challenging and helpful. It’s well worth watching the four sermons.
I could post more, but I think this is enough to get you started!